| Volume 16 No. 5 | Friday 26 December 2025 |
The Friday Thought | Fr Stuart Owen Rector & Rural Dean |
I’d never before noticed what a difference starlight could make. In February I walked overnight across the Isle of Mull to catch the first ferry of the morning to Iona. I knew it would be a dark night because there’s not much in the way of light pollution on Mull, and there would be no moon. The light of the stars took me by surprise; nothing as bright as the moon, of course, but it made a real difference. Each individual star a small, weak light, but a sky full of them created something I could see by. It’s a time of year when a lot of us have lots of Big Things to organise. Many of us will be sitting down to eat on Christmas Day with more people around the table than we usually have. It’s a time of year when people often spend more money on presents than they spend at any other time of year. People are getting the house ready to host guests or are getting ready to travel to be with family and friends. Through work parties and family festivities many people will be engaging in more socialising over Christmas and New Year than at any other time. Christmas can be a time when it often feels like there’s just so much to do, so many people to see. And because we put such a great weight of expectation on these Big Things, we can also be prone to quite a bit of stress if our presents don’t appear to be quite as well received as we’d hoped, or the turkey is a bit dry, or family board games lead to some bored family members. It’s a big time of year and we want everything to be just so. That weight of expectation can all too easily lead us to lose sight of the little lights that really matter so much. Just the pleasure of simply being with people we love. The small acts of kindness and thoughtfulness, that cost nothing. The moments of peace and quiet contentment. When we take the time to see and give thanks for all those small lights of love, then they begin to add up to a sky-full of starlight that can really make a difference. At Christmas, a light shines in the darkness; let’s not forget to take the time to see that light, and give thanks.
A huge thank you to everyone who sponsored me in the sponsored walk I went on for Hector’s House last weekend. Together we raised over £2,500, money which can make a real difference to people who really need some help to see the light that there can be in life. I’m scheduled to speak with Andy Collins on BBC Three Counties Radio at 7.40am on New Year’s Eve, if you’d like to hear more about the walk. Thank you again for helping to make a difference.
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Church news & notices Fr Stuart’s Longest Night sponsored walk The nights are drawing out.... last Friday night was the longest night of the year. Fr Stuart went on an overnight 50-mile walk from Berkhamsted, via Wendover and Aylesbury, looping back through Tring and arriving in Berkhamsted at sunrise. At the time of writing, Stuart has raised £2,749 for the local charity Hector's House, who do invaluable work in suicide prevention and provide support for friends and family of those affected by these challenges.
"Sometimes life can feel like a walk through a long night for people, and tragically there are times when that night just feels too dark and too endless, just too much. I want to walk through this longest night to express the hope that there can be a way through, there is always the promise of morning and a new beginning." Thank you to everyone who donated so generously. If you didn't manage to sponsor Stuart, you can still send money via his JustGiving page: hectorshouse.org.uk
www.justgiving.com/page/stuart-owen-9 | Parish Office Christmas & New Year openingThe Parish Office is (as you may imagine) closed over Christmas, re-opening briefly on Friday 2 January and Monday 5 January. Advance notice: the office will be closed for holidays 6-17 January. Pew sheet notices: to be received by Friday 2 January please. Bereavement & pastoral emergencies: please contact the Rector. The Parish Office wishes everyone a very happy Christmas and a peaceful new year. Contact: | 2026 dates for your diariesWednesday 18 February: Ash Wednesday - Lent begins Saturday 7 February: Come & sing Fauré's Requiem with Berkhamsted Choral Society Sunday 29 March: Palm Sunday 29 March - 4 April: Holy Week Sunday 5 April: Easter Sunday Saturday 25 April: Berkhamsted Choral Society concert: Brahms' Ein Deutsches Requiem Saturday 13 June: Bridgewater Sinfonia concert - Prokoviev Piano Concerto N° 3 | Let there be light(s)A few people seem to have been struggling with the light switches in church. The panel under the balcony controls all the lights in the nave and the outside lanterns (the altar and transept have separate switches). A revised diagram has been put up to show which numbered switch controls which light. The principle is pretty basic: - ↑UP for ON
- ↓DOWN for OFF
- the exception is the switch marked with a blue letter S - this is the spotlight above the crossing, which is down for ON</font > and up for OFF! Simples!
Note that there is usually a delay of 1 or 2 seconds before the light comes on. Some of the lights marked "Dim" can be dimmed by pushing and holding, but some have stopped working. Note that a light may already have been dimmed when you switch it on, so you have to push up to fade it up. At the end of a service or concert, or at locking up time, simply push all switches down to switch them all off (including the outside lanterns please!) - except, of course the spotlight, which is up for off. "Mehr Licht!" - Goethe | Church Smalls Laundry RotaAs we begin a new year, you may be thinking about a simple way to serve. We are looking for volunteers to help with washing and ironing the communion cloths. This is a quiet but important role, needed approximately once every 6-8 weeks. If you'd like to make this part of your New Year's resolution to serve, please speak to or email Hilary Armstrong. Thank you for supporting our worship in this practical way. Contact: Send an email to: Hilary Armstrong | Successful Quarter peal on Sunday 21stCongratulations from all the other ringers to Holly Gosling for ringing her first quarter peal with seven moving bells on Sunday the 21st. This marked the culmination of the Interest section for her Silver Duke of Edinburgh Award. One of the other participants also did bellringing at St Peter's for his Gold Duke of Edinburgh Award. |
Schools news Friday 9 January at 9:00 am Thomas Coram Y3 open mornings Are you looking for a Y3 place in a school in the local area? The Thomas Coram CE School on Swing Gate Lane are holding an open morning for prospective Y3 families looking to start September 2026. Come and have a tour of the school and meet the TC family! If you'd like to come on a tour, visit the TC website at the address below and fill in the online booking form. The school also currently have spaces in Year 4, Year 5 and Year 6 - details are on their website. www.thomascoram.herts.sch.uk/Open-Mornings | Victoria School open mornings Are you looking for a Reception place to start September 2026? Victoria School are holding more open mornings in the new year for prospective Reception families - come and have a tour of the school! - Thursday 8 January 2026 9.15am (Reception and Nursery Tour)
Nursery open mornings for prospective Nursery Families - Thursday 8 January 9.15am at (Reception and Nursery)
- Wednesday 21 January at 9.15am
- Wednesday 28 January at 9.15am
- Friday 6 February at 2pm
- Wednesday 11 February at 9.15am
- Wednesday 4 March at 11.00am
- Friday 13 March at 9.15am
- Friday 20 March 1.45pm-2.30pm: Nursery Stay and Play - come along with your child to have a taster of our Nursery.
To book your space, please complete the online booking form (link below). forms.office.com/e/yuB10v7yas |
The Castle Federation is the governing body responsible for our two Church of England schools in Berkhamsted www.castlefederation.org More about our schools:
www.stpetersberkhamsted.org.uk/about/schools
Diocesan news Friday 26 December at 4:00 pm Boxing Day carols at the CathedralIf you can't get enough of the festive season, St Albans Cathedral are holding a carol service on the second day of Christmas. Swap your two turtle doves for another good old carol sing, and make the most of Christmas! | Thursday 1 January at 7:00 pm St Albans Cathedral New Year’s Day ConcertSt Albans Symphony Orchestra are playing a New Years' Day Celebration Concert at the Cathedral, with Copland's Fanfare for the Common Man, Sousa, Gershwin and Bernstein's West Side Story on the programme. Tickets £5-£28, concessions available. www.stalbanscathedral.org/Event/st-albans-symphony | Wednesday 7 January at 7:30 pm The Sixteen at the CathedralEight members of The Sixteen are singing at St Albans Cathedral, with a rich programme of Renaissance polyphony, English madrigals, and evocative 20th-century classics, including works by Palestrina, Stanford, Victoria and Elgar. Tickets £10-£30 |  | The Parish of Great Berkhamsted is in the Church of England's Diocese of St Albans |
www.stalbansdiocese.org
St Albans Cathedral:
www.stalbanscathedral.org
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Berkhamsted community news & events Saturday 3 January Vivaldi & Mozart Candlelight ExperienceA beautiful string trio concert by candlelight in St Peter's to brighten the New Year, featuring Mozart's Eine kleine Nachtmusik and movements from Vivaldi's Four Seasons. There are two one-hour-long performances at 5pm and 7pm. Allocated seating, tickets from £20 available from Lumos Experiences: www.lumos-experiences.com/events/berkhamsted | After Christmas…. recycle your Christmas tree!For the 17th year running, Local Scout Groups are collecting trees for recycling on Sunday 4 January (Saturday 3 January 3 for Hall Park) for a donation of £6 per tree. Please support the Scouts as this is their only big fundraiser of the year. Why not book your tree collection online now, and get another Christmas chore out of the way! You can also book at the Scouts' market stall next to Tesco on Saturday morning, January 3. trees.1stberkhamsted.org.uk | CCC Christmas concertThe Chiltern Chamber Choir held their traditional Christmas concert at St Peter's on Tuesday evening, and treated us to a rousing performance of Haydn's Missa in tempore belli (Mass in Time of War) - which isn't really a bellicose as its title suggests, but proved to be a joyous offering for the festive season. They also sang Bach's Magnificat, a glorious setting with jubilant trumpets, providing an uplifting prelude to our Christmas celebrations! We'll be looking forward to more fabulous concerts in the new year, so do please continue to support live music at St Peter's in 2026. |
  | Worship with usThis Sunday: 28 December 2025 1st Sunday of Christmas |
9:30am Sung Eucharist You are invited to join us at our main Sunday service
Next Sunday: 4 January 2026 EpiphanyMusic this weekHymns: | Anthem: | | | Voluntary: | Fantasia on 'In Dulci Jubilo' BWV 729 - J.S. Bach | ReadingsIsaiah 63.7-9I will recount the gracious deeds of the Lord, the praiseworthy acts of the Lord,because of all that the Lord has done for us, and the great favour to the house of Israelthat he has shown them according to his mercy, according to the abundance of his steadfast love.For he said, ‘Surely they are my people, children who will not deal falsely’;and he became their saviour in all their distress.It was no messenger or angel but his presence that saved them;in his love and in his pity he redeemed them; he lifted them up and carried them all the days of old. Gospel: Matthew 2.13-endNow after they had left, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, ‘Get up, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you; for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.’ Then Joseph got up, took the child and his mother by night, and went to Egypt, and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfil what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet, ‘Out of Egypt I have called my son.’When Herod saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, he was infuriated, and he sent and killed all the children in and around Bethlehem who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had learned from the wise men. Then was fulfilled what had been spoken through the prophet Jeremiah:‘A voice was heard in Ramah, wailing and loud lamentation,Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be consoled, because they are no more.’When Herod died, an angel of the Lord suddenly appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt and said, ‘Get up, take the child and his mother, and go to the land of Israel, for those who were seeking the child’s life are dead.’ Then Joseph got up, took the child and his mother, and went to the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus was ruling over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. And after being warned in a dream, he went away to the district of Galilee. There he made his home in a town called Nazareth, so that what had been spoken through the prophets might be fulfilled, ‘He will be called a Nazorean.’
 In our prayers this weekAnglican Cycle of Prayer:The Anglican Church of CanadaIntercessions | Diocese | ✚✚Sarah, Archbishop of Canterbury designate ✚Richard, Acting Bishop of St Albans, ✚ Jane, Bishop of Hertford, and Charles, Archdeacon of St Albans | In our continuing prayers | Christina Billington, Judith Hill, John Malcolm, Denis Beard, Mary Beard, Patricia Cody, Ghullam Mutaheri, Frozan Mutaheri, Nola Frost, Barbara Conway, Yvonne Hart, Clare Wallington, Barbara Fisher | In our immediate prayers | Peter Kirk, Charlotte Szypryt, Hilary McVitty, Mark Few, Sienna Vallance, David Steadmann, Gwen Roberts, Neata Thomson, Peter Rolfe, Stacy Giles, Graeme Davis | Weddings (next four weeks) | | Wedding banns called this Sunday | Christopher Graebe & Angela Pleasance
| Baptisms (next four weeks) | | | RIP | Francis Stanley, Jim Murray | | Memorial (year's mind) | Peter Lawson, Rhiannon Jones, Joy Reynolds | ☩ Funeral noticesMonday 12 January 2026 12:00pm: Funeral of Francis Stanley
 RotasWe are ever thankful for our team of dedicated clergy and volunteers who support our collective worship every week. If you are new to St Peter's, we encourage you to get involved in our parish life. Listed below are rotas for this coming Sunday and the week after. You can check future rota dates on the parish website at www.stpetersberkhamsted.org.uk/rotas Sunday 28 December 2025 - Christmas 1| 8am Eucharist |
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| President | Margaret | | Preacher | Margaret | | Reader | Mike H. | | 9:30am Eucharist |
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| President | Fr Stuart (Margaret) | | Preacher | Margaret | | Sidesperson | Jenny H. | | Sidesperson | Helen P. | | MC | Peter M. | | Acolyte | Jonathan B. | | Acolyte | Nick A. | | Thurifer | Chris C. | | Cruficer | Mark G. | | Reader | Mark G. | | Intercessions | Joseph C. | | Eucharistic Minister (Chalice) | Carole D. | | Eucharistic Minister (Chalice) | Uli G. | | Sunday School | . | | Sound | Michael. | | Friday Thought | Fr Stuart |
Sunday 4 January 2026 - Epiphany| 8am Eucharist |
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| President | Fr David | | Preacher | Fr David | | Reader | Sarah H. | | 9:30am Eucharist |
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| President | Fr Stuart (Margaret) ((Fr David)) | | Preacher | Fr David | | Sidesperson | Uli G. | | Sidesperson | Cathy I. | | MC | Libby G. | | Acolyte | Hayley K. | | Acolyte | Chris C. | | Thurifer | Emma G. | | Cruficer | . | | Reader | Kathie L. | | Intercessions | Robin M. | | Eucharistic Minister (Chalice) | Paul J. | | Eucharistic Minister (Chalice) | Hilary E. | | Sunday School | . | | Sound | . | | Friday Thought | Fr David | |